Anonymous asked:

I have two things tomorrow like club meetings and I'm so so scared to go!! I haven't made any friends in college for 2yrs I've been here and it's gonna be terrible tomorrow I will be standing in the corner awkwardly while everyone is having fun and I'll be alone and I'll find a way to embarrass myself and ugh I'm too socially inept for this why did i sign up why

i know exactly how you feel omg. I’m like socially disabled(I’ve gotten better tho) my last two years of high school i had basically no friends and i was always so alone and felt so fucking lame. personally though, i learned to not give a fuck because it really doesn’t matter in the big picture. you don’t have to give a fuck about what those people think of you because it’s your life hun and their opinions don’t have to matter. it took me a long time to figure that out though! i promise you, you will survive and in time you will make friends! it might be painful but you will survive, and you have to remember that. <3 <3 <3